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Our reasons for feeling uncomfortable are valid. I believed the lies that come flowing out of your mouth as if they had been rehearsed for days. Silly me for losing friendships over you.
They can get hit, break bones, lose teeth, get concussions and whatever other injuries and still try to keep playing in the game. If you mean anything to them, you can expect a rugby player to support you in all your successes and failures.
Welcome to Rugby Mad and Looking for Love – the Dating Website for Rugby Fans and Players - However, many of us aren't comfortable with it and that should be respected. They have quick wit.
I am currently in my junior year of college at Appalachian State University. I have been dating a player from the AHO Rugby team, which is a club sport at my school, for about 10 months now. The thing is though, it's much more than just a club sport. The team is celebrating it's 40th anniversary this year of being recognized as a club sport at the school. The rugby team is such a unique set of individuals, both the men's and women's teams. Each player has their own attitude and style, but they create an awesome team; an awesome family. I have gained a lot of friends through dating my rugger, so I decided to make a list of why others should date a rugby player, too. Every rugby player I have met is super low key. This is not a valid email, please try again. They can get hit, break bones, lose teeth, get concussions and whatever other injuries and still try to keep playing in the game. Rugby players have a certain air about them. They can hold their booze. I have never seen anyone consume a larger consumption of alcohol then I have from a rugby player. They can hold their own when it comes to beer. They have their own social circle. The rugby team is a family. If you date one you have to know that the team will become a part of your life, too! They will spend multiple occasions discussing game plays and strategies around you, prepare yourself. It's not as exciting as they think it is. They are all supportive of one another's progress and body types. Rugby players are so comfortable with their teammates. They don't have any boundaries. If they're with their teammates, you can expect to see them be super flirtatious and touchy with one another. It's kind of weird, but you have to remember your sharing your rugger with the whole team. If you're ever hungry, expect your rugger to be hungry too. They are down to eat whenever you are, so don't ever feel like you can't eat as much, or as often, as you want. Because they will happily join you as you eat your 100th meal of the day. Rugby players constantly support their teammates on the field so it's only expected that this support follows them into their personal lives. If you mean anything to them, you can expect a rugby player to support you in all your successes and failures. They know how to party. Rugby players throw down. They can't drink before games, but they definitely will be right after they get off the field. Rugby parties consist of singing, dancing, drinking Olympics, and the occasional burning of the closest object to the fire. Look it up 15. They have quick wit. If it's one thing I have discovered from dating a rugby player it's that they know how to clap back, and quickly. Rugby players spend their days roasting their teammates so they acquire a quick wit to respond towards anyone else. Silly me for thinking that you were forever - believing the promises and accepting all of your gifts. I thought those feelings were only possible in the movies. I raved about you, spoke so highly about you, and about how I could see a future with you. Silly me for losing friendships over you. I had best friends before you. But then you had me convinced that you were the only person that I needed. They all warned me but I was blinded by your love. There was no way that they could've been right. You were so sweet. You would have never. Silly me for choosing you over experience. You controlled every ounce of my being. I wanted to go out without you but I wasn't allowed. I missed so much because of you and I thought that was normal. I was no longer an individual but rather someone who's life was dictated by someone else's opinions. You told me what was right and wrong. This is not a valid email, please try again. Silly me for believing what you said about my body. I was perfectly content before you came along. But yet there I was, attempting to lose weight and wear more makeup because you told me to. I became a new person around you - one that I didn't like. But I did it anyway, for you. Silly me for thinking I was the only one. I believed the lies that come flowing out of your mouth as if they had been rehearsed for days. You conditioned your eyes to innocence - and I believed them without a doubt. Silly me for not picking up on the signs. Your lies had been inconspicuously drilled into my head. I couldn't even think straight. You had me overcome with emotion to the point where I ignored the hints: the texts with other girls, the lies, the rumors. It all went unnoticed. Silly me for giving you the time of day after I found out what you did. I had always heard of people being cheated on but I never thought that it would've happened to me. Yet, there I was trying to justify why it was okay for you to cheat on me 20+ times. You had me questioning what did wrong to make you not want me. You made me question myself and who I was. And silly me for not knowing my worth earlier on. You stole my happiness, you stole my confidence, you stole my voice, you stole my trust - things I will never be able to fully regain ever again. If you are a person of color and your significant other is not, chances are, yes, they are probably racist. As America is progressing as a society, interracial couples are becoming significantly more common. When two individuals from different social backgrounds come together in a relationship, there are certain attitudes that I have observed over the years. According to the , interracial married-couple households in the United States increased from 7. With this idea that interracial couples and marriages are increasing in mind, what are the expectations we have for our significant other? This is not intended to generalize every interracial couple, this is just an observation. A few months ago at my work, a coworker of mine came in as a customer. I haven't worked with her for the few weeks I had been employed, so naturally I just assumed she was a random customer. At this point, I'm not sure if she knew I was Asian and was trying to antagonize me or if she genuinely believed I was white. As a Korean-American, I have passed as white before, but many people would agree to say that I am unmistakably Asian. As she left I was so confused and didn't really know whether I was offended or not. My coworkers were quick to inform me that her husband is Asian as if it could justify her racism. According to these same coworkers, she makes Asian jokes all the time and is not racist because her husband is Asian. I made it very clear to my coworkers that her behavior is not okay and I could not care less whether her husband was Asian or not because it will never make her Asian herself. Even if she was Asian I wouldn't know how to react to her remarks. Maybe I could laugh it off easier, but it would still leave me feeling uncomfortable. Another student shared a similar story with the class: her Black boyfriend's brother was dating a white girl who threw around the n-word and justified her racism with the fact she was dating a Black boy. While others may tolerate this vernacular, it is not a subject taken lightly by many. Many people are tolerable of racist humor which is why I'm sure my coworker's husband didn't have a problem with her racist comments and some Black people tolerate the n-word. However, many of us aren't comfortable with it and that should be respected. Our reasons for feeling uncomfortable are valid. These two situations were examples of racism within a relationship. One contains racist remarks fully intended to offend Asians, and the other one pertains to a controversial word that evokes victimized racism. People need to be respectful of individual social backgrounds if they are going to throw around controversial words or opinions; especially in regards to race. At the end of the day, these are just words, but it's the impression we leave on people and the attitude we want to promote in our world that needs to be considered. Please, if you have learned anything from this article: be respectful of others. Dating anyone of color does not put you in a position where you get to decide if you are being racist or not!
That Awkward Moment When You Tell Your Rugby Player Date That You Hate Rugby Players
They all warned me but I was blinded by your love. You stole my happiness, you stole my confidence, you sin my voice, you stole my trust - things I will never be able to fully regain ever again. It's kind of weird, but you have to remember your sharing your rugger with the whole team. Silly me for choosing you over experience. If you're ever elements, expect your rugger to be hungry too. While others may tolerate this vernacular, it is not a subject taken lightly by many. If you mean anything to them, you can expect a rugby player to support you in all your successes and failures. I couldn't even think straight. I couldn't even glad straight.
